- 15-year-old me: MOM I'm practically an ADULT ugggh you never let me do ANYTHING in olden times i could get MARRIED *eye roll into another dimension*
- me now: for my birthday i want food and to stay on your health insurance
new video babes! THE SEX TALK: 10 TIPS! i never really got “the sex talk” from my parents, beside telling me JUST DON’T DO IT!!!!!!!
if I have kids, this will be how it goes down. what was your “sex talk” like?
I love this video. My parents 1) Never has a sex talk with me and 2) Never had any of the other talks with me — relationship advice, body image, trust and respect with a significant other, etc.
I don’t necessarily blame them for some of the issues I had, but I also can’t help but wonder if my first few relationships would have gone differently if I heard the advice Laci gives. The first guy I did anything sexual with made it feel like it was something to hide. Church always made it seem like any sort of sexual contact was something that you might slip up and do, but you should try to avoid. I mean, I’ve been in the same relationship for 2.5 years and I would still feel embarrassed talking to my parents about my sex life.
I just hope if I ever have kids, we can overcome those obstacles and they can lead a much healthier, more open life than I’ve had.
Back at my old middle school, Shanghai-ing people for quotes. I guess this is the circle of life.